Nik may follow up with more on this, but of the three export options (from the File System Window), apparently you are choosing “copies the original and rating / adjustment metadata to the Photo Library”.
I do not place any RAW files in Apple Photos (AP) due waste of space AND AP does not natively render Fuji RAF compressed files, so I have never tried this. BUT…apparently YOUR untouched RAW file is going into AP along with some “xmp” file / data. I don’t know if AP will use that XMP sidecar (which in all of my experience is a non standard XMP file that nothing else can read). If AP does not read that XMP file, then there is no way for it to see your edits since they are never “baked in” to RAW files (by design).
Watching this to see if there is additional clarity or corrections from Nik….gary