No not at all, but Nitro is the one I would prefer to be using.
Also I have been a professional software engineer who has a bit over 40 years of experience, including in DAM (Digital Asset Management) software — as well as a semi professional photographer for nearly 20 years. But I also not believe I need to be a Subject Matter Expert in either field to have reasonable expectations about the behavior of Nitro in contrast to it’s competitors. It feels like a bad form of Argument from authority.
Nor do I agree that what I made was disparaging comments about the software or the developers. I was pointing out a scenario they apparently didn’t consider and haven’t addressed. I said I couldn’t use it and explained why. I never said anything mean or cruel about the developers (who I have great admiration for, especially because of their previous work on Aperture).
However in two messages now it feels like you are putting the blame on my equipment, or my decision making process, and not based on what the software claims to be able to do; and what the expected behaviors should be.